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Overwhelmed By Gift Buying? Don't Worry, We've Got You....


Gift giving around the holidays can be stressful: financially, energetically, and logistically. I have spent weeks intensely and intentionally searching, incessantly hounding my influencer friends who have various expertise, pausing when the friends of my kids are using or wearing something that catches my attention, polling our audience, and sifting through catalogs that most people throw straight into the trash. Below are some absolute favorites for this year, arranged in categories, followed by links and other helpful information. My hope is that all the time I have spent narrowing it down will help you to better enjoy the process of gifting while also saving you time, some money, and making you stress less. Happy gifting!


For The Guys In Your Life - See the full list of awesome gift ideas here!


If you've have never had the experience of using a Bidet, in your OWN home, you are missing out! If you've ever heard someone talk about using a bidet, you know that this gift will not just be for the man in your life, but will totally give you the double benefit of giving an awesome, unique gift, while also enjoying all the, um, perks! We love this one because it's not


When we moved into a smaller home, Adam was pretty bummed that he couldn't bring all of his conditioning equipment. According to Adam, these Bowflex Weights are way better than the separate ones he used in our former houses, and he can just stick them in the closet anytime he's not using them. They're easy to move around, don't clutter an area, and very simple to use. Full disclosure, at first he bought a "knock off" set. He wasn't happy with it, so he tried this one (they have a free trial period), and he's so glad he did.


We all know that a little grooming goes a long way. No gadget compares to the Manscaped Lawnmower 3.0. It's skin safe, waterproof so it can be used in the shower, and leaves all body parts feeling fresh and smooth. Also gives an amazing trim, whereever necessary.



I bought Adam this Electric Guitar Whiskey & Wine Decanter and Whiskey Glasses last year, even though he's not a guitarist. As a rock-n-roll lover and someone who loves to play bartender, he was beyond excited about it. Plus, it looks awesome just as a decorative piece is a living room, lounge, or even an office when not being used.


My favorite gifts are the ones that people open and immediately burst into laughter. That's exactly what happens when giving this apron as a gift. Plus, it's the gift that keeps on giving, since every time people come over to BBQ or have dinner, it again sparks so much laughter and funny banter. It's just a really fun, inexpensive present to purchase.


More Men's gift ideas here!


THE gift list for the women in your life is right here! And here are some of our top picks....



Don't you miss the days of sneaking out of the house with alcohol in your bag? Even though many of us have graduated from Zima to Chardonnay or High Noons, it's still so much fun to get together with the girls at the beach, in someone's backyard, or even at bookclub and pull out the ol' backpack to reveal a secret stash of goodies. This Corksicle Beverage Bucket Cooler Bag is our favorite because it's nostalgic, but also stylish and functional.


I'm not going to lie....I have wasted FAR TOO MUCH money on fragrances, trying to find the "perfect one" that will lead to all kinds of compliments when I walk into a room. I am extremely picky. But my greatest fragrance find ever is the NEST New York Passport to Bali - Balinese Coconut, because I literally layer it with every other perfume/oil/body wash that I love, and it somehow just totally enhances every single scent. The oil is amazing for more intimate situations, and the mist is perfect for seriously every occasion. Wear them together and you will turn heads everywhere you go.


I realize that getting something associated with cleaning might be a controversial take. But I'm going to be honest, I would practically make out with anyone who got me a Poplin Gift card. Poplin is an incredible service that will professionally washed, flawlessly dried, expertly folded, and returned to you the very next day. Laundry truly is a love language for those (like me) who absolutely hate it. Simply enter in a zip code to see if they service the area of your gift recipient. I also love this as a gift for a college student, new mama, or elderly relative.


For the bath lover, how about a "Tub Relaxation Staycation" kit? Include in it this bathroom tray caddy, perfect luxury Bath Pillow, and this GORGEOUS, amazing-smelling Salt and Stone candle? Want to be extra creative? Wrap it all up in one of these beautiful kimono-style robes.



See our full list for women here!


Our Tween/Teen Lists (created by Adam and Danielle's 13, 16 and 19 year old kids and around a dozen of their friends. Trust us when we say this is THE LIST for boys and THE LIST for girls. Plus, both lists have plenty of gender neutral selections, too! And, here are a few favorites, below.


When my son and his friends are all in my house, I literally cannot keep enough food in the house. I swear they must eat through $100 worth of food in one afternoon. But recently I did something genius, and bought this FOODIE BOXX of Asian Instant Ramen. Now, they make the ramen and sample the different flavors. I also purchased the hot and spicy version, and I swear it's hilarious watching them challenge one another to see who can eat the spiciest ones. Plus, we all know aside from being delicious, Ramen is one food category that won't break the bank.



How much fun is this DJ Set? Learn the basics of DJing with help from the Beatmatch Guide (built-in Tempo and Beat Align light guides), plus stream all DJ music through Serato DJ Lite. Learn how to scratch like a pro.




If you need to buy something for a tween/teen girl and aren't sure what, I promise, you cannot go wrong with Sol De Janiero, which is basically the "most wanted" item on like 95% of wishlists from ages 13-19. All the scents are great, but if you have to choose just one, go with number 62. You absolutely cannot go wrong, and you will be someone's new favorite person, for sure, winning the title of "MVP" gift-giver. Spending a little more on something extra special? Go with the Mist and Match set.


Last year, a family friend got my teenage son this Major League Ballparks Scratch-Off Poster. Honestly, I thought it was about the best damn gift someone had given him. They knew he was a basball lover (also available for football and hockey lovers), but also that he didn't need anymore "stuff." Since recieving this as a gift, my son has started to plan which stadiums he wants to visit and in what order, and made a point of seeing games already in two cities he otherwise would have never visited. We keep it in this easy-access wall frame so he can display it, and take it out only to scratch off another stadium.


We gave these Shark Onesies away as giveaways last weekend at a party for my son, and when I tell you the kids were beyond excited, I am not lying. Out of the ten giveaways we did, this was by far the most coveted, and it was just so much fun to see them leave the party wearing these soft, fun, warm onesies.




Check out all of our teen/tween picks!


For The Person Who Has Everything!


Do you know someone who could use some calm and laughs in their life, without the hangover? We recently have become fans of Brez, which is a euphoric, calming, and inspiring next-gen social tonic with an unparalleled effect. They're perfect for "Dry January, for social occassions when you don't want to deal with nasty side effects or feel like hell the next day, or just for sitting home alone and wanting to take the edge off some. And yes, it's perfectly legal! Try a holiday bundle, have them available at your next party, or give them as a fun, unique gift. Vist Drinkbrez.com, and use code "Martinis10" for $10 off your purchase!


The Volpam Scooter is not only the coolest looking scooter there is, but it's specifically made for adults, has a powerful 350W motor, and the maximum speed can reach 19MPH. Simply pair with your smartphone and use the app to control the scooter. Selecting riding modes, light system, speed level, cruise control, start mode and scooter status display ect. Maintenance-free tires and the one-step folding system make it the best way to get to work, travel locally, or even just take it out for fun.



We all know the amazing feeling of putting on warm clothes fresh out of the dryer. Now imagine doing that every single day with your towels, bathrobe, or blankets. This personal Warmer Heats small sheets, robes, blankets & other fabric Items for ultimate comfort & relaxation. Also makes an amazing shower or wedding gift.





We love a gift that's somewhat like an experience more than just something to display. Hunt A Killer puts out the best games for true crime fans, and makes it so simple to follow the directions. Become immersed in a night of mystery and suspense with your favorite people at your next gathering.






See our full list for the person who has everything, here!


Check out our Amazon storefront to see ALL of our awesome lists, and don't forget to check the Marriage and Martinis shop. Each purchase on there supports our small business and allows us to keep doing what we're doing! Thank you so much, as always, for your support.



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