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Marriage

& Martinis

The Couples' Holiday Challenge

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If you're tired of being the sole holiday "magic maker," you've come to the right place.

Give yourself the gift of feeling more present, joyful, and relaxed this holiday season.

Teamwork Activated

Bonding Mode Turned On

Shared Experiences Await

Overwhelm Managed

Fun and Laughter Elevated

Holiday Enjoyment Prioritized 

Intentionally prepare for this holiday season, making it the most fulfilling possible. We deserve to feel PRESENT, and not just like behind the scenes directors, facilitators, and “magic makers.

 

Our challenge is designed to strengthen and foster teamwork, decrease the heaviness of the holiday mental load, and open up energy, space, and time for the pure joy and authentic spirit of togetherness we deserve and crave.

 

If you’re tired of bearing the brunt of being the “holiday magic maker,” and/or associate this time of year with anxiousness about navigating the social, familial, financial, and logistical expectations, join us on this dynamic, interactive journey! 

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WHATS INCLUDED IN MY PURCHASE OF THE HOLIDAY CHALLENGE?

Regular Holiday Challenge Pass

(Digital Download Only)

PURCHASE NOW AT THE LOWEST PRICE. DOWNLOAD DELIVERED TO YOUR INBOX ON OCTOBER 24th!
  • Resources to tackle the inevitable decision fatigue (tools for scheduling, list-making, delegating, and problem solving). 

  • Four "themed weeks" worth of content, each week to conquer a different seasonal goal, freeing up time and energy to transform feelings of anxiety and uncertainty into feelings of excitement and preparedness.

  • Guides to communication concerning complex topics such as family gatherings, hosting, budgeting and division of holiday-related domestic responsibilities. 

  •  Marriage and Martinis-designed, “holiday-themed date nights.”  Bond while crossing essential tasks off the to-do list (it's a win-win)! Pre-planned activities such as cooking or baking, mixology, gifting, and other seasonal tasks centered around teamwork.

  • YOUR CENTRAL HUB for the best tips and advice to get inspired! The most current, hottest holiday 2024 tips and ideas from experts, top influencers, professional organizers and more! 

  • Topics including (but not limited to):

    •  gifting

    • hosting

    • developing new traditions

    • Honoring longstanding traditions

    • Setting and enforcing personal and professional boundaries and comfortably saying “NO” when you would usually say “yes.”

Regular Pass $49.99

Limited Time Sale - 20% Off!

(Discount applied at checkout)

VIP Holiday Challenge Pass

(Interactive, Live Experience)

(limited spots - will sell out quickly!)

PURCHASE NOW AT THE LOWEST PRICE! BEGINS ON OCTOBER 27th!

EVERYTHING INCLUDED IN THE REGULAR PASS ​​

PLUS

  • Online Forum to exchange ideas, seek support, and share in a safe, supportive environment. Interact in real time with Danielle and Adam, ask questions, and answer their prompts.

  • Daily emails with insightful, most up-to-date tips and information concerning topics such as:

    • Tipping​

    • Etiquette do's and don'ts

    • Hand-selected, rare gems from Danielle's "BEST OF" holiday-related, SECRET MEME AND VIDEO STASH, containing the "too risqué for social media" content.

    • AMAZON INFLUENCER INSIDER ACCESS to Amazon Prime Day's most incredible deals before advertised to the public. 

    • Time, money, and energy saving hacks straight to your inbox so you don't have to deep dive through the internet and find them yourself!​

  • Two live, zoom date nights hosted by Danielle and Adam. “Holiday Challenge Kick-off Date Night!" Then, the “Challenge Celebration” at the end of the 30 days.

  • EXCLUSIVE Marriage and Martinis podcast episodes only available to challenge members, not available anywhere else.

  • EXCITING GIVEAWAYS from Danielle and Adam's list of gifting favorites, and special discounts from top brands, only for Marriage and Martinis challenge participants.

V.I.P. Pass $84.99

Limited Time Sale - 20% Off!

(Discount applied at checkout)

Choose Your Holiday Challenge Adventure...

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Which Version is right for you?

Regular Pass
(Access to downloads only)
 

VIP Pass
(Interactive experience)

- Prefer to utilize the resources much more independently, rather than with your partner. 

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- Uninterested in attending attending virtual Date Nights.

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- Would love some additional guidance navigating this holiday season, but mainly, you've got it covered.

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- More interested in the downloadable resources: lists, schedulers, DIY holiday-themed projects, etc. than the more personalized, community support, led by Danielle and Adam.

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- Not interested in receiving insider information on the latest  discounts, deals, and exclusive promotions for top brands and trending holiday gifts/products.

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*Digital Download Delivered To Your Inbox On October 24th!

- Usually feel overwhelmed and "alone" during the holiday season, dealing with the majority of "The Mental Load," saying "no"/people pleasing/creating and enforcing boundaries concerning work/family-related obligations. 

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- Would love more support and guidance communicating, bonding, and establishing a stronger sense of "teamwork" with your partner rather than the feelings of disconnection, under-appreciation, and imbalance attached to being the sole holiday "magic maker."

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- Virtual Date Nights sound like so much fun and an easy way to have unique, fun, chance to interact with Danielle, Adam, and this private community, while also gaining productive relationship insights, tools, and s strategies.

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- Excited about making this your "Central Hub" for all things holiday-related, from simple decorating ideas, to easy cocktail/mocktail recipes, trending gifting ideas for every recipient, and a place to meet similar people, commiserate and share the best, most relatable, and most stressful aspects of the holidays. *Begins October 27th!

Join the interactive (VIP), version of the challenge, and make this space

YOUR ALL-IN-ONE HOLIDAY HOMEBASE

Thanksgiving, Christmas, Hanukkah, New Year's

and everything in between!

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  • Conquering inevitable holiday “Mental Load”

  • Latest, most up-to-date expert recommendations on: tipping, gifting, setting boundaries, prioritizing your time, and hosting and so much more!

  • Original, limited-edition, digital downloads for scheduling, budgeting, organizing, and delegating, created by the bestselling authors, hit podcasters, public figures, and hilarious couple, Danielle and Adam.

  • A safe, PRIVATE (VIP challengers access-only), virtual space to share ideas, personal anecdotes, hacks, ask and answer questions, and feel understood and supported. (Moderated by the experienced M&M team).

  • Carefully designed, done-for-you, refreshingly-unique, partner-oriented bonding activities, intentionally crafted to build teamwork while having fun. 

  • TWO holiday-challenge-themed virtual, LIVE date nights led by Danielle and Adam. 

  • Exclusive access to Danielle's famous Date Night Questions, created specifically  for this challenge.

  • Daily emails that deliver exclusive gifting deals, recipes, cocktails, “hacks,” favorites, etc, straight to your inbox, saving you tons of time and energy.

  • Direct access to the Marriage and Martinis’ holiday challenge support team for any questions, concerns, or help.

  • Tons of opportunities for laughter and playfulness (individually and together) to replace the stress, chaos, and uncertainty.

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Tackle the holiday overwhelm while strengthening relationships, building confidence, and conquering the unfairness of the mental load.

All while having fun and finding even more joy.

The holiday season is magical. However, for those of us who actually are the magic makers, it's much more multi-layered and complicated than that. The planning, logistics, and physical and emotional labor that go into this time of year are exhausting, and can be tainted by the frustration of succumbing to our innate people-pleasing habits, financial and familial stress, and the overwhelm of the "mental load."

 

We're here to ensure that this season is refreshingly different. Join our holiday challenge, and gain access to resources that set you up for a season of teamwork, bonding, balance, and boundaries. Utilize proven strategies, both independently and as a couple, to protect your time, energy, and level of enjoyment.

 

Establish a system of practices as a couple to ensure you are ready to tackle complicated situations as a team, committed to being each other’s first priority, and gaining an opportunity to be just as much the receiver of magic, as the giver.

  • ​Resources (specifially-themed and formatted planners, essential list-makers, simple DIY projects, etc.) 

  • Guides for dealing with the more stressful aspects of the season (decision-making, social agenda, prioritizing, budgeting, etc.)

  • Exclusive, holiday-themed Date Night Questions to spark useful, gentle conversations.

  • Holiday-themed Date Night Blueprints

  • Relatable anecdotes and strategies to deal with any uncertain or contentious situations

(20% Discount - Limited Time)

$49.99

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  • EVERYTHING INCLUDED IN THE REGULAR PASS, PLUS….

  • Interactive, online forum to connect with other “challengers”

  • Two live, zoom date nights hosted by Danielle and Adam.

  • Daily emails with tons of valuable tips, strategies, and deals to save you tons of time and energy

  • GIVEAWAYS 

  • Access to Marriage and Martinis’ Holiday Support Squad

  • And so much more!

$84.99

(20% Discount - Limited Time)

"We didn't know what we were getting into when we signed up, but we were struggling and looking for something different. When I tell you it has so positively impacted our weeks and how we interact on a daily basis, I mean it has really led to so much more gratitude.”

“Our marriage counselor recommended your resources. My husband and I had more conversations and better communication using them than ever before. A couple big revelations despite knowing my husband for 15 years.”

Still have unanswered questions?

Feel free to reach out to jessica@marriageandmartinis.com

our “challenge” liaison and showrunner, who will gladly answer any questions in as timely and comprehensively as possible.

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